EVERY WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…one old love she can imagine going back to…and one who reminds her how far she has come…enough money within her control to move out andrent a place of her own even if she never wants to or needs to …something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her dreamswants to see her in an hour…a youth she’s content to leave behind…a past juicy enough that she’s looking forward toretelling it in her old age…a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra……one friend who always makes her laugh…and one who lets her cry…a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyoneelse in her family…eight matching plates, wineglasses with stems, and a recipefor a meal that will make her guests feel honored..a feeling of control over her destinyEVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… ..how to fall in love without losing herself ..how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friendwithout ruining the friendship…when to walk away..that she can’t change the length of her calves, the widthof her hips, or the nature of her parents …that her childhood may not have been perfect…but its over…..what she would and wouldn’t do for love or more …how to live alone, even if she doesn’t like it …whom she can trust, whom she can’t, and why she shouldn’t takeit personally ..where to go, be it to her best friend’s kitchen table, or a charming inn in the woods when her soul needs soothing ..what she can and can’t accomplish in a day a month,and a year